February 12, 2026 I don't remember exactly when I first noticed it, which is usually how genuine cultural shifts work. Nobody sends out an announcement. Nobody calls a meeting. Nobody informs wedding DJs that the rules have changed. Instead, the change arrives quietly, disguised as an ordinary moment that seems insignificant at the time and only reveals its importance years later when you suddenly realize you haven't had a particular conversation in a very long while. For nea
