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Celebrating my birthday at Starflyer Brewing Company this year. I celebrated my 53rd birthday this evening while hosting DJ Trivia at Starflyer Brewing Co. As birthdays go, this one was fairly uneventful. Not bad, exactly. Just uneventful. I spent my birthday asking people questions, keeping score, playing music, awarding prizes, and pretending, with moderate success, that I was not another year older and one year closer to death. The players did sing “Happy Birthday” to me b

This is part IV of a five-part series titled The Five Assets That Define an Extraordinary Wedding DJ. A veteran wedding DJ explains why integrity—not just music knowledge or personality—is the most important quality couples should consider when choosing their wedding DJ. Integrity protects the couple’s vision. Discernment helps defend it when competing priorities begin pulling it in different directions. April 30, 2026 Trust Is the Foundation of a Wedding When couples begin

Every year, couples place line dances and participation songs on their Do Not Play lists. I understand why. They are overplayed. They are predictable. Some are downright ridiculous. But what if we have been asking the wrong question all along? This essay began as an exploration of line dances and ended somewhere far more interesting. From Cab Calloway and Freddie Mercury to church congregations, baseball stadiums, Rocky Horror screenings, and wedding receptions, the same patt