At some point during the reception, you’ll hear a song called Hava Nagila and notice guests forming a large circle on the dance floor. This is the Hora, a traditional Jewish circle dance meant to include everyone. You don’t need to know the steps ahead of time—most people learn as they go. The circle usually moves counterclockwise, hands are held, and the energy builds quickly.
You may see guests being pulled into the center to spin briefly before rejoining the circle. At weddings, the bride and groom are often lifted in chairs for a short time, which is both celebratory and symbolic. It’s normal for the circle to rush inward and then expand outward again, all while cheering loudly. This isn’t a performance and no one is judging—enthusiasm matters far more than coordination. If you’re smiling, moving, and holding on, you’re doing it right.
The Hora is about shared joy. It’s loud, fast, emotional, and over before you know it. Jump in if you feel comfortable, clap along if you don’t, and enjoy being part of a moment that means a great deal to the couple and their families.